Signs i am dating a narcissist

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Says Rachel, “My ex-boyfriend was a narcissist, and I stayed with him much longer than I should have.

The reason was that he gave me intermittent reinforcement.

*** It was cold and damp on Thursday evening and I decided to make my way to the local coffee house. I’d rather be this guy (pats his chest) than some weird clone of myself.

I had a ton of reading to do and I had been stuck indoors all day, so I decided that I needed a change of scenery and a delicious, warm frothy beverage. *** I thought it was important to post this because it’s easy to get caught up in text book definitions of Narcissism, but there’s a totally different perspective out there in the real world.

This week something interesting happened and I got to kill two birds with one stone. I’ve already been on medication for anxiety and depression. It kills my sex drive and I don’t feel like myself.

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So, as I’m waiting in line for my Caramel Macchiato I spotted him. Some people define love as wanting the other person’s happiness more than you want your own. On paper Narcissists can appear to be so evil and it seems so clear cut like it’s all black and white, but there is so much grey in a Narcissistic relationship and that’s what keeps countless people hanging on. He’s charming, good looking, a shameless flirt, funny and intense.

Sitting in a big comfy chair there he was, Max in all his handsome glory. I hate it when she’s upset, but my need for other women supersedes any damage that I might cause. She does keep coming back though, so she has to be okay with it somewhat. Sav: I read somewhere that Narcissists have this Saint/Whore complex where women are concerned. Under this definition you couldn’t call what you have love. You told me I’m a Narcissist and I read all about it and I don’t disagree with you. When we see a Narcissist and we listen they do seem compelling, completely human and even logical at times.

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