I just don't pick up on it unless you literally say, "Hello, I like your face and body. Don't post a photo of your face that is not your actual face.
I would like to go somewhere with your face and body with the intent to date or have sex with you."Point is, I guess I just always assumed that the traditional meet-cutes of movies and TV were bullshit unless you were super outgoing and out at bars every single night, or if you were a fancy lawyer with no time for dating but then one day your heel gets stuck in a street grate. When I started online dating, it was fantastic in most ways. We all have that one ridiculous angle that makes us look like we're Angelina Jolie in her prime (which was , BTW), and that's great, but if this person can't recognize you when you meet in person because in person you look more like Wednesday Addams, choose another photo. If they make you feel sexy and happy, take 'em every second. You're just starting out, so it's OK to only reveal a little bit because you have no idea who these people are or how this thing works and it's kind of scary!
(If you’re still at a loss, at least mark “modesty” as one of your chief virtues.) Just don’t get carried away.
Getting hyperbolic about your achievements may attract a few more interested parties, but it’s a bad idea to misrepresent yourself. And while you’re being honest, remember to be clear on your “non-negotiables”.
one can't really establish cause and effect, only that the traits seem to go together.
Fwiw, I'd guess that very emotionally reactive people have those traits, and could test lower in IQ due to emotions slowing down and complicating their thinking...
Either that, or "lower tested intelligence" goes along with authoritarianism and prejudice toward others due to some "other factor"....
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