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To be completely honest, I really feel sorry for interracial couples in loving relationships who have to suffer the strain of stereotypes and archaic beliefs.
Being in a relationship and making it work is hard enough already – how much more when you’re of different races and cultures and have to deal with what others think, feel and say about you and your partner day in and day out?
I was browsing through blog posts and articles recently and I came across a question that said, “Help! It seemed like a really big crisis for that woman, almost comparable to asking a question such as “my daughter is marrying a drug addict, what should I do?
” Reading and re-reading the question out loud in my head, it surprises me how there are still these bigoted stereotypes like that in this day and age.
In 2005, that number was up to seven percent of the 59 million marriages in the United States. “Some of the growth can be accounted for by declining societal prejudice towards – and less shame experienced by – people in interracial marriages”, says .
It goes on to add that couples tend to start a relationship based on four important reasons: the attractiveness of the partner, shared common interests, shared similar entertainment interests, and socio-economic similarities.
Since many young people lack experience dating a person from another racial group, that provides fertile ground for stereotypes to persist.
In 1970, revealed a Stanford University study, there were only 65,000 marriages involving African-Americans and whites. Among all interracial couples, they represented two percent of marriages in 1970.
Personally, you'd get more points from me for if you can quote James Baldwin or if you're knowledgeable about or genuinely interested in learning about my culture beyond popular trends and stereotypes. Johnson wrote for Everyday Feminism: part of Black culture, that has to include learning about the history of what you’re appreciating and about the struggles and achievements of the people you’re borrowing from.
Then you’ll be the kind of ally who’s informed enough to honor our culture in a way that supports us — instead of just taking what you like and hurting our community.
White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.
These are generalizations, of course, but they are attitudes that I've personally encountered.